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Rheumatologist Reject

Rheumatologist Reject

I recently switched jobs. I could not be happier. Better hours, pay, and duties that are more satisfying. The big change is that I went from a sedentary job to a job that keeps me on my feet moving heavy equipment for 10+ hours a day. Overall, this is a smooth and welcomed adjustment. I feel better physically, and I have been sleeping more soundly.

Fears of psoriatic disease

However, about a week ago I came home late, went to bed, and was awakened about an hour later with a terrible pain in my knee. It felt swollen to the point that I couldn’t bend it. It didn’t look bigger to the eye, but it felt heavy and bloated. I’m not normally a worrier, but this caused me some alarm. How was I going to shine at my new job if I couldn’t bend my knee? I have to get in and out of a large box truck all day, so having legs like a Ken Doll wasn’t going to cut it.

Thankfully, by morning it was bendable. I was still sore but could at least move. Since then my mind keeps going back to the thought “Could this be psoriatic arthritis?” I have watched friends suffer and become disabled from the disease affectionately (or maybe not so) referred to as PsA, so I always have the fear of developing it lurking in the back of my mind.

So why haven’t I asked for a referral to a rheumatologist? To most, that would seem like the logical first step, and I am sure I will eventually, but my past experience is giving me pause. About a year after starting a biologic, I told my dermatologist that I had been experiencing pretty severe back pain. I also had pitting on my nails, so I knew the risk of developing PsA and wanted to be proactive. She gave me a referral, and after waiting for months to get an appointment, I arrived ready to discuss my concerns.

A disappointing doctor’s appointment

The doctor came in and immediately asked me why I was there. Now, this wasn’t in the normal, concerned way, but more in an annoyed, you-shouldn’t-be-here kind of way. Basically, the gist of it was that I was too “young” to be seeing a rheumatologist. I wasn’t limping or at a point, I had to use a walker. I wasn’t showing any “classic” symptoms. Plus, I was on a biologic, which is the treatment for PsA, so what more did I want? I was appeased with an order for an x-ray and dismissed.

I never went and got that x-ray. I felt invalid. I felt that I was making something out of nothing. I have spoken with others that share a similar experience to mine. In fact, according to one study,  only 30 percent of patients were diagnosed with psoriatic arthritis within six months of the onset of symptoms, while approximately 70 percent had up to a two-year delay in diagnosis.1 There is a lot of damage that can occur in two years, and often times it is irreversible.

Advocating for my own health

Not being one to wallow too long in the pity pool, I have learned from this experience that it is important to be my own advocate. I had the opportunity to meet a great rheumatologist that chaired the cycle event for National Psoriasis Foundation in my hometown, and I plan to reach out to him. It’s so much better to go for a second (or third, or fourth) opinion than risk letting a misdiagnosis keep me in pain. As much as I don’t like the doctor, I don’t like being in pain even more. I want to be able to run and play with my kids.

If you are a rheumatologist reject like myself, keep seeking out help until you find the answer. Maybe it isn’t PsA, but pain of any sort is your body telling you something is wrong. Also check out our sister site for more information!

This article represents the opinions, thoughts, and experiences of the author; none of this content has been paid for by any advertiser. The team does not recommend or endorse any products or treatments discussed herein. Learn more about how we maintain editorial integrity here.

Leavitt, M. Why early diagnosis is critical for psoriatic arthritis. May 6, 2015. .


  • Debora Krimmel Storm
    7 months ago

    I’ve been suffering( unbeknownst to myself) for years. It took a Humira commercial to make me realize that I have PsA! Now I am taking biologics and am kind of under control. I wish I had known sooner, may not be experiencing so many symptoms!

  • Jessica.Hall
    7 months ago

    Hi @debora-krimmel-storm,
    Sorry to hear about your recent diagnosis, but glad you have one and are now able to manage it. Thank you for taking the time to share with us, please know we are here for you. Wishing you continued healing! Kindly, Jessica- team

  • lrp62
    1 year ago

    I just don’t get it but my experience with rheumatologists has been less than satisfactory as well. I finally saw a physical medicine physician who did more for me than the rheumatologist. I got my SI joints injected and at least I can sleep at night. I am on a biologic as well. I really feel like if you don’t have absolutely classic signs and symptoms of psoriatic arthritis they dismiss you.

  • Trixiepop345
    2 years ago

    Thank you for sharing! My rheumatologist told me I probably had osteoarthritis, he gave me methotrexate for my psoriasis and I was taking 7 tablets 2.5 mg a week. I was battling fatigue, pain and swelling and my skin still was flaring. I asked about biologics and he said methotrexate was safest. I went to a dermatologist who started me on a biologic. My skin, pain,swelling and fatigue are better! He was impatient and dismissive of my PsA symptoms, my dermatologist was supportive. I was feeling like a crazy hypochondriac with my PA. I’m thankful to find a health care provider who understands in all this. Glad you did too.

  • Chris Pettit author
    2 years ago

    Hey Trixiepop345–So glad to hear you found the right provider and are feeling better! I am shocked to hear you were told that methotrexate was the safest. I have heard some horror stories about that medication, but to be fair, I also know some people who have done well on it. But to label it the safest seems a bit of a stretch. Thanks so much for reading and for your comment! -Chris, Community Moderator

  • Jaime Lyn Moy
    2 years ago

    When my son was growing up with psoriatic arthritis, doctors either went on “the good list” or “the bad list.” I’ve even gone as far as telling the staff when we checked out that we would never be returning to see this doctor, and that was the very first visit. Thankfully, most of the doctors we’ve dealt with over the years – both my son and myself – have been pretty good. We are extremely lucky with our dermatologist who has been like a member of our family for 15 years. We wouldn’t trade him for anything! Keep persisting and hope you get the help and relief you need.

  • Chris Pettit author
    2 years ago

    Thanks for the encouragement, Jaime! I met a great rheumatologist at an NPF event this last spring, and I have an appointment with my dermatologist next week and I am going to ask for a referral.

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