, I hear you. I know people are mostly trying to help with these comments, but it does get quite tiring dealing with them.
I think the comments that I find the hardest are the ones that follow AFTER I've said that I've tried the lotion, or dietary changes don't help me, or I shower enough. The response I would really like is something along the lines of "Oh I'm sorry that didn't work for you. I hope you can find something else that will help". Instead, I get "Well how long did you try it for? Did you do it properly, with no cheating?". Those are the ones that I find most upsetting. We all will do almost anything to find relief from this disease, so it's hurtful when we get questioned in this way (or that's how I feel anyway!).
Looking forward to hearing others' thoughts on this. So nice to have a place to vent about these things. Thanks, Diane! -Catherine, Community Moderator